I never thought I'd be pregnant this long. I don't know why I thought I'd have a baby before now, I just did. But, I also have had a fear of NOT GOING INTO LABOR. So many people (okay, the ones who don't know about VBAC safety) have asked if I'm scared of labor. No. My answer is always no. I know the statistics, I know VBAC is safe. I know (in real life and form twitter-land and facebook) so many people who have had successful VBACs. I know it's a safer option for me.
So, I am afraid I won't go into labor. I've had contractions off and on (nothing painful, some uncomfortable though) for a few weeks now. It's annoying. I'll start having contractions, start timing them, then they quit. I've tried NOT timing them & the damn things still quit. I've had no bloody show, no mucous plug, no diarrhea, and no nesting. Nothing. Just these annoying little contractions. And I've experienced both a full moon AND a huge drop in the barometric pressure (both are believed to cause some to go in to labor...as a former L&D nurse and current high-risk OB nurse, I hate working on full moons and when it's raining).
We've tried everything....evening primrose oil, red raspberry leaf tea, natural prostaglandins & natural oxytocin, pineapple, chicken parmesan (I realize most people say eggplant, but I find eggplant parmesan to be so greasy and we have good, free-range, organic, fresh chicken available). I've gotten a 40-weeks and counting massage that focuses on pressure points to help with contractions and uses aromatherapy (specifically clary sage, lavender, and rose) that is supposed to help with labor. I've done a self-hypnosis podcast (which only resulted in my falling asleep, but it was a good sleep). I've done essentially private yoga classes (no one else showed up!!) that were focused around encouraging labor (a ton of squatting).
I'm officially giving up. Throwing in the towel. I meet with my midwife on Wednesday. I think I'm going to have her check my cervix (I will be 40 weeks & 5 days). And, I think I will schedule an induction for 41 weeks, 6 days. I'm quite sad I'm going to schedule an induction, but mentally I think it may help me "give up."
I know my chances of a successful VBAC decrease with induction. And they decrease after 40 weeks. So, I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't, right? I'm already past the 40 week mark. I want a healthy baby AND a healthy birth. And trust me, I want, more than anything, for this baby to be born from my vagina, not from an incision in my belly. For some reason, I'm not anxious about passing the 40 week mark and having a VBAC, I'm just not.
I still have some trust in my body. While my c-section took a lot of that trust away, breastfeeding and nourishing my daughter for nearly 3 1/2 years brought so much of that trust back. My body does work, the way it's supposed to. For now, I'm trusting, yet not really getting too excited about anything.